Gotta Love Tuesdays!

So, Tuesdays are 1/2 price Happy Meal night around here. Beth brought her boys over and was so great to pick up the food on the way. We had a blast! It was great just to laugh and enjoy the boys with another adult! I miss that!

I can't believe how well-behaved they all were and how nicely they played with each other. The big boys played some guitars, made some playdough masterpieces, and sorted the cars.

The little guys just kinda followed each other around, playing with everything. They definitely were interacting in their own way. Raleigh really liked anything he could swing and Lucas just liked dumping everything out. Cracked me up!

So great to have a friend like Beth! I so needed that!

Wednesday flew by crazy fast! Ethan picked up a few new phrases... "Actually... I don't want to go there..." and "You think so? I don't think so."

Today - got crazy beautiful flowers delivered from Brian! Yellow and white roses- gorgeously wrapped with chocolates and a sweet note! What an awesome surprise! I was totally ridiculous and carried them around everywhere I went today- but they were just beautiful and so happy.

Only one more sleep till we see Daddy! So exciting!

Conversations

"Ethan, what do you want for dinner?"

"Um.... Let's go to the store and get some samples. Okay Mommy?"

"2 days till Christmas.... um... how do I get to a year?"

"I am a slapper-wrapper! My slapper-wrapper bones are found deep in the ground" (velociraptor)

"Wow, I like this grass! Thanks you for cleaning the grass mommy!" (the snow is all melted?)

And he picked out his own jammies and put them on all by himself! Picked out Lucas' jammies too!

"Joosh!" (for juice)

Oxygen is Good

"He's so handsome and so... smart"

"No mom. You doing it wrong. I'm so handsome and so SWEET."

"Well, you are smart too... and strong... and caring..."
"Yep, I like carrying big stuff. I good at that."

Yesterday... Our one big outing was to Costco for lunch. That was a total success - as always. Nothing is better for toddlers than a new food around every corner. Their favorite - surprisingly - was a multigrain cracker with cream cheese and smoked salmon. They loved it! Not fair to me since that meant I didn't get very much. I don't like to share the good stuff! Another highlight - the popchips - fascinating! And delicious. However, too expensive to be logical...

The rest of the day we went stir crazy. By evening time, we'd all lost it. So, early to bed and prayers for a good night's sleep for all of us! (Most of all me)

Today, I decided we needed more planned. So (after the world's most ridiculously stupid and long tantrum over putting a shirt on) I packed up the boys early and we drove out to church. We were super early since I was hoping they'd sleep, so I pulled into Tulley's and treated myself. The boys were fabulous at church and then, because it was SO sunny (!) we headed off for the zoo. We're members, so it's a good place to hang out, as long as it's not too cold that is.

We had such an awesome afternoon. Lucas is finally old enough to really interact with the animals and boy did he. He mimicked their sounds and shouted "HIII-EEE" to all of them.

Ethan loved the lions - as always.... They were pretty sleepy, but they did start "Roar"-ing and Ethan and Lucas gave it right back.

It was cold, but with the sun shining and no wind to speak of, we weren't uncomfortable at all. I got a bit of a workout pushing the stroller around. We just enjoyed each other- something important after yesterday!
In the rainforest, the monkeys were very active! They kept coming right up to the glass. Lucas was kind of freaked out by it at first, but by the end, the boys were both giving hugs through the glass.

They even posed nicely for a picture - who woulda thunk it? Maybe we all just needed a bit of fresh air.

Ethan tried really hard to make friends with a little girl on the slide. She wanted nothing to do with him though. Luckily, he just kept bossing her around and didn't even realize she wasn't paying attention.

The boys spent some time digging for fossils and probably would have stayed all day if I hadn't gotten bored. Note to self: Bring book to read next time.

They were so good - but we were pretty hungry because the food stands weren't open (I did get the lady to get me a soft pretzel), so I promised the boys if they took a nap in the car, we'd go someplace special. They did, so off we went to Buffalo Wild Wings. We had a totally healthful (yes, sarcasm) meal of french fries and mini corndogs. The boys were yet again wonderful - which continued (mostly) until bedtime. Yep, I think a bit of fresh air did us all good. Let that be a lesson to me - GIVE THE KIDS RECESS THIS WEEK!

Hatchin' Dinos

Santa brought Ethan a dinosaur egg for Christmas. So last week, we took it out and got ready to hatch it.

We had to soak it for a long time. "When's it gonna crack Mom? It bigger yet? I gonna watch it. Gonna crack crack crack. Dino gonna crack crack crack." At first I really liked the song, 4 days later, not so much...

But it did start to crack and finally, last night (with a little help from the dino fairy) the shell let him loose. "He's bigger! He CRACKED!"

We had to take him out and put him in his new home, so he can grow. "How big's he gonna be mom? He's gonna be big like you? Big like me, or small like Lucas?" Oh goodness, I hope none of the above....

There's a little issue with his new home. The curved glass creates quite the illusion. That dino DID grow. I'm not sure I'll be able to sleep. Oh, but then I look from the top and we're good to go. I suppose we'll have to name him. If only I could get him to float upright so it didn't look like a dead dinosaur all the time...

I told my class about him today and one student replied, "So, is it real?" I swear he was serious. We may need to revisit the meaning of extinct...

One week down and we survived! We're all pretty tired. Ethan asked me if he could go to bed at 5:45. I held them off until 6:30, but it was difficult.

And now I'm eating my dinner of goldfish crackers and salad - delicious, waiting for an acceptable time to go to bed myself.

The Ever-Changing Eye...

"You crazy?" (Ethan's new favorite phrase)

I forgot to mention Lucas' eye in my last post. Yep, it's a shiner. Another boy in his class was getting a toy down and whacked Lucas in the eye. He is always in the wrong spot at the wrong time, I swear! It hasn't seemed to bother him though - just looks really pretty - kind of like purple eyeshadow. The boys love brushing their teeth. It might be the highlight of their evening and morning (how boring are we!) But, we know and are ever reminded, routines are key, and so it has become quite the event. We've figured out a schedule to Skype with Brian (first thing in the morning) and that seems to help. We also made a paper chain for the days until we see him (by "made a paper chain" I mean we found the paper chain they made at daycare for Christmas and adapted it to the right # of days).

Brian got two job offers here in Boise today - kind of funny. They would have been "settling" jobs, so it's really better he didn't get the offers earlier. I keep telling myself that :)

I'm excited to go to school tomorrow - Micron is coming to do a "States of Matter" demonstration for the kids. I know there'll be dry ice and I figure some sort of fun explosions, so that should be a good stress release.

Oh - and if you want a giggle - here's what we ate this week:
Monday - Grilled Cheese with Spaghetti Sauce
Tuesday - Happy Meals from McDonald's (Thanks Santa Nana!)
Wednesday - Cereal with Raisins
Thursday - Bagel Bites and Apple Sauce

Will I ever cook again? I keep flashing back to when my mom went back to school and my dad was home with us - we ate hot dogs and corn or pancakes just about every night. I loved it!

And another thing? There was a dead, frozen mouse in our driveway. I freaked out about it and was so happy the next morning when it was gone. Then, I came back after school and WAS BACK. So, I cleaned it up. I sucked it up and just did it. I'm kind of proud of myself. Now I'm just praying there will be no spiders over the next 5 months.

And now that you have my random thoughts (you'll be getting many more of these posts I fear as I don't have much adult interaction in the evenings) I should probably stop talking. I'm even driving myself crazy :)

Down with Stomache Bugs!

So I guess the ER doc I formerly referred to as crazy was right... It was just a tummy virus that Lucas had. How do I know? The last night Brian was here, Ethan got so so so so sick, all night long and into the next morning. Then Brian got it that night, though not so violently... And then last night was my turn. So now that we've all had it, I'm hoping we can move on. I was home tody and hoped to do some cleaning, but that didn't happen. Oh well, tomorrow's another day.
As far as Brian goes - he's doing great and excited about what he's working on. We don't get to talk to him much, as our schedules are kind of opposite, but we're hoping to have a daily Skype chat in the mornings. We miss him terribly, though I think the boys are still having a hard time conceptualizing that Brian's not here.
As for being a faux-single parent? I'm getting a bit better - more organized, more forgiving of myself... We've changed a few things routine wise to help - eating really simple dinners - like the "fondue" in the pictures - grilled cheese cut into strips, with matchstick carrots, all to dip into spaghetti sauce.

Ethan was a pro. Lucas not so much. He just wanted to lick the sauce off the bowls. Don't know where he learned that habit...
I'm really praying for a good night's sleep tonight - that's my goal. And a nice big cup of coffee in the morning! I couldn't drink any today and that probably made me feel as bad as the bug did... Onward we go...

A Smashing End to the Year

I was all set up to do a fabulously nostalgic post about the good, the bad, and the ugly of 2009, but life got in the way. I picked up the boys from daycare yesterday. It was snowing and when I slowed down to turn into the neighborhood, we slid up onto a median and into a rock fountain. It wasn't horrible - not bad enough for airbags - and luckilyour neighbor (who happens to do a lot of mechanic-ing) was driving by and checked it out and helped tow us off the ledge. We made it home and everyone seemed fine. Then an hour later Lucas started throwing up. So, Brian came home and took us all to the ER to get checked. The doctor saw nothing of concern -thinks the vomiting was just coincidental (I so did not agree) and discharged us. Lucas took some anti-naseau meds and has been fine since, albeit sleepy. I'm sore, but feeling better the more I move around. What a fun way to end the year? Blech!
Brian moves to WA Sunday morning - it's all still somewhat surreal... I am so so so excited for him. It's going to be wild ride around here, but the boys showed me tonight that we are fully capable of getting through this together. They both are becoming so independent (to their own levels) and helpful (ok, just Ethan on that one..)
2009? It was a great year in that my boys became so big and started really being brothers. For me, my transition into my new school really became complete and I feel like I gained a lot as a teacher. For Brian? He gained a lot of patience and perseverance. He never gave up and now we look forward to 2010! A year of transition, a year of strength, a year of Skype and phones, and a year of hope. Bring it on 2010 - we expect big things of you!